March 12, 2010

MONEY - How Important Is It For You?


For money you can have everything it is said. No, that is not true. You can buy food, but not appetite; medicine, but not health; soft beds, but not sleep; knowledge but not intelligence; glitter, but not comfort; fun, but not pleasure; acquaintances, but not friendship; servants, but not faithfulness; grey hair, but not honor; quiet days, but not peace. The shell of all things you can get for money. But not the kernel. That cannot be had for money. -Arne Garborg, writer (1851-1924)

In 21st century everything seems to be connected with money. They say that money moves the world.

Some years ago I traveled abroad hoping that I will make more money that way and experience happiness. But then I realized that I was so emotionally connected to my family; to my Tashkent with its endless bumpy roads and so on.

I realized that there are a lot of other more precious things in life ( I will tell you more about them in my comments). So to what extend is money important to you these days?

66 comments:

  1. Very interesting question, I agree with writer Arne Garborg. However, these days living without money is impossible. Most things depend on money. For instance, to study, to live, to survive. One of my dreams is to study in UK. Whereas it is too expensive. That's why I think money is something we really need. On the other hand, as Akmal aka said family, friends, hometown are priceless.

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  2. Oh... God! I'm finally here)) So, you need for my opinion about money... Okay! There are no to much to say. Money - Is life. We can't without it, everything depends on money, we work, study, survive for earning money. Money solve all of our problems.. in politics, institutes, goverments and so on... Who has a lot of money, he has a good life, but nowadays many people say that you can't buy love)) but I think opposite.. If you has a lot of money, you needn't for love.

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  3. Yes, this is a very nice question. We can by everything except Love, health , friendship and other important things. I think that money is only a tool.
    Money is help you to achieve your dreams and visions in life.
    In today's times, you can't really do anything without having money. Because of this people are sacrificing valuable time to make more money.
    Money is not everything, but money is something very important. Beyond the basic needs, money helps us achieve our life's goals and supports — the things we care about most deeply — family, education, health care, charity, adventure and fun. With money, much good can be done and much unnecessary suffering avoided or eliminated.
    Money can give us the time to develop our gifts and talents, but not the courage and discipline to do so.
    How much money it costs is not the issue, but how much the money costs us is important. Money should not cost us our soul, relationships, dignity, health, intelligence and joy in simple things of life. People who figure out what they truly value and then align their money with those values have the strongest sense of financial and personal well-being!

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  4. I think that money is necessary for us, because in modern life all depends from money! Of course if you haven't got some talents or knowleges, money will not help you, but... somethimes people look only at financiel side of a man/woman.I know a lot of cases, when a man/womam has amazing abilities but they hasn't got money! And they doesn't know how to use their talents without money and go to other work, where they can make money! I think,certainly it's not correctly! Each men has his/her own world and soul which not depend from financial positions in society. By my opinion money is not sense in life but it's very good assistant which help man/woman reach their desires!

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  5. OK guys you said that money is important and so on and so on. Let's suppose you won $ 1,000,000 from the lottery, would you give up studying? In the long run why you really study? To be more successful and have a comfortable life in the future???

    To Bexzod: Can you explain how you can buy love? :--)))

    Akmal

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  6. In my view money plays large role in our life. We begin study almost since the childhood, to provide wonderful future, and it depends on material condition of person, because if you have money, you live without problems and you have all necessary thing for a beautiful life.
    People says that "HAPPINESS NOT IN MONEY" However I don't agree with them, because HAPPINESS it's not only healthy family, just think If you haven't money, will quarrels in your family du-to shortage quantity of some products or clothes.

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  7. Oh gosh!!! What's that, guys calm down.
    Everything depends on money???? No, it's wrong.
    Well there is a question who made money? Of course people, so why you think it is life, happiness and can solve our problems.
    Not everything depends on money think about it look around, you can see people who have little money and they are happy really happy.
    Imagine very rich family, parents divorced, one of children drug addict another one invalid and you think that this family is happy. I don't think so. Well don't think only about MONEY, it is just paper with pictures which was made by people.

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  8. Yes, I agree with Doston. And I also think that-“ Money can’t buy you happiness”…

    To Bekzod: Please answer how can you buy LOVE?
    Because I don't think so...

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  9. By the way Akmal aka why you have changed name of blog, and why in your blog happening redirection to another site.

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  10. Yes I coulnd't open the site as well)

    Re the topic. I agree that it should be only instrument for experiencing a little bit more happiness and make anything kind for you close people.

    I need money and I it's value for me but I will hate myself if I become grasping. Brrrr...

    Olga

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  11. Guys let me tell you what happened to me about 3 years ago. I was young and quite very naive at that time. Like any other person who lives in former Soviet Union I used to think that people abroad, especailly in places like USA, Canada, Europe or let alone Japan and Australia, work very little hours and get thousands of dollars for the work they do. At that time I used to feel so discouraged and less motivated that I did not want to work and live in Tashkent. So I decided to go abroad to experience some kind of happiness and find a good job.

    At the beginning I worked in the hotel and later joined language school.

    Surprise,surprise I found myself working 14-16 hours in the hotel and later more or less same working hours in the language school. Did I make the money I wanted to??? Well more of less yes!!! For that period it was a good money and I was sending quite a good amount of money to my family back home.

    But my perception about so-called luxurious life in abroad has changed. I saw how hard and long hours people work there and get paid good amount of money, which is very huge in our eyes. Money they were making perhaps was good to spend in their own home-country but in that country it did not make any big difference and a big sense. And same thing was about me too.

    Although I was happy, I was feeling that I was missing out quite a lot things in my life. For example, being together with my family!!!! I was feeling myself like a machine which is supposed to earn money all the time.

    After that I decided to come back home. Now while working in Tashkent, I don't focus solely on money but I try to look around myself and feel happy that I have the meaning of my life, good and supportive colleagues, lovely and hard-working students and wonderful friends. But at the same time, I try to keep myself financially healthy by taking several jobs. Since my return to Tashkent, I have been offered 3 or 4 jobs abroad. Oooops!!! Excuse my guys I will think very carefully this time before going abroad to work. What about money??? What is point of going abroad to make a little more money than your own town and live all alone without any LOVE???!!!!

    Akmal

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  12. TO Doston and Everybody,

    Main reason why I changed the name or URL address of my blog was to make the name to be more simple and easy to remember.

    www.smallworld-akmal.blog.spot.com was even difficult for myself to recall when I wanted to enter my blog. In several occasions I could not remember the name/URL of my blog and I was very frustrated. I found www.intashkent.blogspot.com easy to remember and easy to recall and type.

    Doston I did not understand what you meant by redirection :-((( If you meant My Favorite Site section where I put 4 web-sites, I did it because I wanted the visitor and members of my blog to easily browse WIUT web-site, use McMillan On-line dictionary, and improve their grammar skills and so on every time you visit my blog.

    ATTENTION: I will put another site dedicated for improving IELTS writing skills today or tomorrow guys. It is one of the best sites I have ever seen.

    Doston thank YOU for asking questions. Everybody please feel to ask your questions on-line, or just call me at +99890 994 1285. I will do my best to help you through.

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  13. Dear All,

    Don't forget to participate in our Opinion Poll. This time question is: What do you like about Tashkent most?? I will be announcing new opinion poll questions every month. You can always suggest a question and topic for discussion!!!! Please feel free!!!

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  14. Most of all I like people in Tashkent! Because they are friendly. For example in Moscow people are not so hospitable as in Tashkent. Also I really LIKE our weather and our national dish-plov!!)))

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  15. I like that we are given an opportunity to leave to other countries o_O

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  16. Hi, all! Akmal, you are doing right job! Thank you for your blog.
    I`m not sure if my comment will go with the topic but I like one statement that I found 2 years ago on one of the USA ELT websites. It says that 'English for non-native speakers is a business tool and it has to show dividends immediately.' I think it`s about us and it`s one of the reasons why we teach English...

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  17. Money VERY-VERY important thing in our life. No money-you're nobody, in my opinion. Money is solving all economic problems, even emitional problems also. If you've a lot dollars) you can fell yourself sure, strongly etc. That's true, I know it.))
    OYBEK

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  18. Vika:"Most of all I like people in Tashkent! Because they are friendly." Are you sure that you live in Tahskent? =)

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  19. TO Shavkat: Sorry Shavkatjon I could not answer you in our classroom when you asked me what I think about your comments. You said that if you have money there will be no problems. Are you sure about that? We, all of us, know how some people are so rich and still complain about their lives. More money you have, more problems you have!!!!

    And I think that most of the problems derive from not because of shortage of money in the family but because of shortage of patience, understanding and laziness. We always want to work less and yet to make more money!!!! Agree???

    Also problems happen in our family because we always compare ourselves to others who seem to be, yes seem to be happier and more successful just because they are a little bit or even more richer than you. But have you ever stopped and thought for yourself that these people may not have smth that YOU have in your life? Let's say peace and harmony in their family. So???? :-)

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  20. To Sarvar: Sarvar what do you think about money? How important it is for you??? :-)))

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  21. Everybody please notice that I have already added a link for IELTS Writing under ''My Favorite Sites'' Section.

    Also when you are in the Home page of the blog there is an interesting article to read uploaded just under our Discussion Topic. It has a picture of an old and poor man. Text seems so big but it was just in A4 format paper when it was original. So it is not so long.

    However, text is quite in advanced level. So take some patience with you while reading. It will help you to pick up new words and enrich your vocabulary.

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  22. Money, money, money everybody think only about money. What's happening with people Mr.Akmal. There are huge interesting things except money. Family, friends, love, nature...
    In my opinion 87 per cent of people or more interested in money only, they think only about how to earn and how to accumulate.

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  23. To Mr.Akmal, about problems, i mean that problems which happend because of money, and i agree with you, that most of rich people are not happy, however sometimes happiness depends on your character.If you malicious, greedy...Of course you will be unhappy!

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  24. Hello, my name is sabina.I was invited by Irina.I think that its very good question. Many of us think that money is very important for our life. Of course without money we cant buy some important things, but many people try to find much money and their life turns into hunt behind money.

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  25. To Sarvar: Yes, I think that people here are more friendly, hospitable than in some of other countries…Don’t you think so? =))

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  26. To Sarvar: Yes, I think that people here are more friendly, hospitable than in other countries…Don’t you think so? =))

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  27. Don really agree with Doston since even family can not exist without money =( Moreover ,here is Russian proverb " Любовь кончается там,где начинается быт " Unfortunately "быт" is money =(

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  28. Dear Vika,do not want to argue with you as you are lady but please make sure that you are in Tashkent right know. You might be think that you are in Jerusalem =)

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  29. Dear Sabina,why should not I "hunt" after money? What do you learn an English for? For love or maybe for family? hmmm.strange (

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  30. well I think that Money plays an important role in our live because it can change it in all cases

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  31. To Sarvar
    Well my friend, we need money to survive but not everything depends on money. It can be connected. There is different meaning between connected and depends. So money doesn't solve problems in family (or in other cases) for example, parents want to divorce and it is painful for children, isn't it. well tell how can you solve this problem with money?
    On the other hand people created money and people make money part of our life. I mean people can do anything, so they can also make money trivial. Think about, thank you.

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  32. Dear Sarvar
    You said to Vika about Tashkent people, I don't know in which part of Tashkent do u live but if you paid attention Tashkent people more friendly than Moscow, London, Dubai... people. Simple example, you can see how people friendly in streets if you were in bus or in other public transport you could see youngsters give place to older people or boys to girls. Sometimes I see retired people who care toddlers or babies near them, they give candies or just make them laugh. BUT in other cities you will never see such kind of kindness.

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  33. Dear all
    I have just read article below this topic as mr.Akmal said it is interesting and it is in advanced level, so you can move from this topic to another (below). I picked up new words. Come on guys EVERYBODY THINK DIFFERENT ABOUT MONEY, and also you can spot that second topic is connected with this in some case.

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  34. Yep,may be you are right =)

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  35. TO Sarvar: Who is right? Please say the name!

    TO Sabina: Dear Sabina WELCOME to our blog and community. How did you like it??? Please invite your friends from your group to join. This blog is opened for all students from CIFS/BEAP-1 and 2.

    Happy Blogging!

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  36. Guys the question is not whether money is important or not. Of course it is important!!!The question is "To what extend money is important for you in your life?" :-)))

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  37. To:Sarvar
    Dear Sarwar i sad that money is important for our life but you shouldnt to spend your life for making money. You live for the sake of money or you live for the pleasure....

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  38. to:Akmal Akbarov
    Thank you so much. Its a good blog, in this blog, people can improve their spoken language))

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  39. Dear All,

    Please notice that I added more than 10 very useful and interesting web-links for you to practice and improve your Writing, Reading and enrich your Vocabulary.

    There are also other interesting links about 300 Women Who Changed The World, Nobel Prize and Oscar Awards.

    Happy Blogging and e-mail me if you know any other web-links like that!

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  40. Dear all,

    I have a link there are different jokes. May be it will be interesting for you, because they are in English.

    Olga

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  41. forgot to give a link - www.laughcraft.com, there are fun stories in English.

    Akmal, I recommend to visit as well) and share with your opinion)

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  42. I directed my comment to Doston.
    To Sabina : I have just thought about the entertainments and other stuffs which usually bring kinda pleasure to ppl ,so haven't been able to find anything that would not be related to money =(

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  43. I think many things depends on money! Yes happieness is most important in our life but money is part of happiness!For example you have good wife and cleaver, healthy kind children.But you can't buy clothers, healthy food and pay for their education. I think this time you won't think about love!
    Doston you said that money can't solve problems. I think in this situation money will solve all their problems! And many families divorced because of money! Money is just a piece of paper and it's pity that this paper often can solve our problems and change our life! Money has a power and we can do anything to divest them this power!

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  44. Oh Finally Madina!!! Good to read your comments!!! I will be responding you later!!!! Welcome to our Blog!!!! Please invite your friends from other groups and as well as ours.

    Happy Blogging!!!!

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  45. To Madina
    Well if you think that money solve all problems could you clarify how it would solve problems above which I wrote.

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  46. Hi guys))I'm not sure that money is all what we have in our LIFE..IN Madina's example we see that we can trust money.IN that situations money is a good way out.But many others important things we can not buy or solve by this green papers.You know,I think that many people rely only for money And most of them are guilty that they solve their all problems by it.The people have got used to give money everywhere/even there,where it's not necessary. Only because the decision of problems for the people without money became very long process.In general I want to say that to base only on money is not necessary!!

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  47. Here is the point huh =)"A penny saved is a penny earned"

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  48. I agree with Renata, very good opinion!!!! =)

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  49. Oh at last one more of our students. Renata welcome to our community!!! Very good points!!! I liked them. I will be responding them later today.

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  50. Dear All,

    Sunday is coming and please suggest a Topic of your interest by e-mailing me at aakbarov2010@gmail.com or uzbekistan2104@rambler.ru

    Please, however, DON'T post your topic here on our blog. It should be mysterous and make everybody wait impatiently and with a great interest. He, he, he :--)))

    No Religios and Political Topics!!!!

    Looking forward to your e-mails!!!

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  51. i think that money is only paper for survivng.but matirial level of our life depends from the quantity of our money.that means if you have much money you will have all conditions for the easy life.and if you have not much money you will try to earn much money to improve your life.fortunatly in this world you can see the people who try to achieve not only much money.this kind of people try to get good education,to have a good recpect among the friends,relatives etc.from nodira.

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  52. Hello guys. I think it is very interesting topic - THE ENDLESS QUESTION ABOUT IMPORTANCE OF MONEY!!! In my opinion MONEY IS EVERYTHING AND NOTHING.. We can BUY whatever we wan,but not only the main things - HEALTHY, HAPPINESS and LOVE!!! Ye,surely,we can be happy without money,but if you have a lot of money you will have a higher standard of life and it is not bad...From the other hand A BIG QUANTITY of money can make you BAD mAN and it is fact!!! so,i consider that we must control money and do not allow them to rule over us!!!
    *******AziZ********

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  53. Hi Nodira and Aziz, at last!!!! Welcome to our community. I will be getting back to you later today.

    Very GLAD to see you all!!!!!

    Have a nice blogging

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  54. Doston I don't said that we can solve all our problems with money, I just give an example where money can solve problem,because you said that money can't solve problems which appear in family!
    And I full agree with Renata and Aziz!
    Madina

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  55. Nodira what kind of person you are?? :--))

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  56. Dear Aziz, I really liked your point. Money is everything and it is nothing!!! May I ask you teo explain your following statement: A BIG QUANTITY of money can make you BAD mAN and it is fact!!!

    How do you know that it is FACT!!!! For example now I have a lot of money but it is not really making me a BAD man though I am trying to be one!!! :-)))

    Again can you show that fact and source where it is actually from??? Looking forward!!!

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  57. Dear Bexzod (our Bexzod in our group), could you please explain us how we can buy LOVE??? All of us are waiting!!!!

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  58. Shavkatjon you said that I did not answer your question. Could you please paraphrase and say your opinion or question one more time? I will be looking forward!!! Thanks!!!

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  59. To Akmal'Aka
    OK teacher,it is a good question! Thank you! I will explain my statement!
    Of course it depends on MAN, but very often a big quatity of money can make a man greedy and then he wants more and more! Next he became spiteful and in the end - A BAD MAN!!!))
    But,of course, we shouldn't forget that every rule has an exclusion! )

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  60. Oh yeah Aziz, it is a human nature to have more and more, better and better, bigger and bigger, right???? So in case of money more money you have more greedy you may become and greediness may lead to becoming a BAD man. But pay attention that I used the verb 'may' and not 'will'.

    Is the world's second richest man so bad???? Bill Gates?????

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  61. To Akmal'aka
    Yeah teacher,you are right - HUMAN NATURE,but i think we should struggle with our bad sides))
    And about Bill Gates,WHO KNOWS? who knows???!!!
    Yes,in general he is good natured man,but we have no ideas about all ways of his RICH life)))

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  62. Money is realy important. No money no good live. But money is not most important think. It’s like a tool witch help us make our live better. We always think about money and we do all to earn more money. But we earn more money to have thinks whitch help us make our live better.
    I can buy soft beds, but not sleep. But it’s difficalt to sleep without bet.
    Guriy :-)

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  63. please don't push Bekzod to explain how one can buy love, it is too personal

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  64. Hi Anonymous person,

    We think that Bekhzod is capable of speaking out for himself!!! Don't you think so? :-)))

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  65. If money comes easily, I will spend it very easily too

    If I earn some money hardly, I will not spend at all

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